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5 Secrets to Attract The Opposite Sex Like Ants To Grape Jelly
January 3, 2009 by admin
Filed under General Dating Articles
By Lisa Daily
Want to quintuple your odds of winning in the dating game?
We surveyed a variety of top experts and learned five
unbelievably effective secrets to make the opposite sex come running.
Here’s how you can use them to work for you:
1. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION
Want to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spacial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you’re doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex. Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties? Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit. (But don’t pace a track on the carpet for goodness
sake…)
If you’re in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar. Not only will you meet more people, but, according to Mehrabian, bartenters tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. Interesting conversation AND a full drink?
You’ll feel like you’ve died and gone to dating heaven. The worst place to be seen? Hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table.
That hot stranger approaching your table and asking “may I join you” only happens in the movies.
2. THE COLOR LURE
What color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to approach you?
According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. And why wouldn’t we be? According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are “stable, faithful, constant and always there.” The blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship someone who’s dependable, momogomous and can match his own clothes.
And what about the ladies? Eiseman says women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The color is “very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow,” and according to Eiseman, projects “a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men.”
Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can’t handle strong women? Try a deep red, burgundy or plum. Men who aren’t attracted to strong women will steer clear.
Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with caution. “Red is the color of sex and power,” says Eiseman. Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of men – men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful women. Sure, you’ll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn’t threatened by the fact that you make a bigger salary.
Concerned your wardrobe is driving people away? Stay away from what Eiseman calls “squished caterpillar yellow-green” which is said to repel both sexes equally.
3. BODY TALK THAT REELS ‘EM IN
How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex?
If you’re a woman, the key is to make yourself approachable. According to nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker, Patti Wood, you want to make yourself a “safe” (read approachable) target. How do you accomplish that?
Don’t take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority.)
Wood says, “we are strong women, but remember, we’re trying to
get a man to come over and talk to us.” She explains, “you have to show you have room for someone else in your life.”
In addition, Wood says “to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward. ” Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt – signal you’re listening to what the other person has to say.
For men, appearing more dominant effectively draws the attraction of women. To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, and toes pointing outward. Feel free to take up some space. For men who are victims of the “nice guy” badge, or who appear to be too submissive to attract women, try taking your Y chromosome out for a spin. According to Mehrabian, men should “try wearing bulkier or more conservative hairstyles or clothing,” hold your head up, and speed up your speech and gestures to be more assertive.
Body language tips for both sexes: Don’t fold your arms and don’t chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. According to Wood, the chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.
4. THE POWER OF A SMILE
Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable) is to smile. Not a great big plastic game-show smile, just your normal “I’m having a great time and
I’m happy to be here” face will do the trick. According to Wood, “the smile is the international signal of friendliness.”
5. TEMPTING WITH SCENT
Studies show that men associate the scents of cinnamon and vanilla with love. To make the scents work for you, try baking some ready-made cinnamon rolls about an hour before your date arrives, or, wear a cinnamon-vanilla scented perfume (there’s a fabulous one called “Man Magnet” at www.stopgettingdumped.com.)
Aromatherapy experts have long-believed cinnamon to be an aphrodisiac. According to Laura Davimes, aromatherapy and herb expert and owner of Herban Avenues, “certain aromatic plants exude oils similar to our own sexual secretions or pheromones. These pheromones can greatly influence both social and sexual behavior,transforming ordinary people into more interactive and attractive beings. With essences like cinnamon, for example, and vanilla, there is an added benefit from tapping into pleasant warm memories of food and love and the sense of home.”
The scent of a woman? Women, according to a recent study, are attracted to a black licorice scent. So, be sure to pick up licorice or Good ‘n Plenty at the theater snack bar. And, if you’re at a club and happen to spill a little Jaggermeister on your shirt, don’t worry about the stain, just consider it your lucky night.
Lisa Daily is the author of Stop Getting Dumped!
All you need to know to make men fall madly in love with you and marry “The One” in 3 years or less. At better bookstores.
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January is National Breakup Month
December 27, 2008 by admin
Filed under General Dating Articles
By Lisa Daily
The holidays are over and just when you thought it was safe to put down the eggnog, you might find yourself smack in the middle of one of those “We Have To Talk” talks.
While November and December are generally unlikely months for breakups (who wants to be the jerk who ruined Thanksgiving?), January is usually the biggest month of all.
Why? For some, it feels like the first chance to make a clean break after the holidays (and the last chance before Valentine’s Day rolls around.) And many men say they just don’t want to be on the hook for the required Valentine’s Day gift/flower arrangement/romantic dinner for a girl they’re not really that crazy about. For others, the breakup is part of the New Year’s resolution value package that includes getting a better job, losing the love handles, and embarking on a mission to
find true love.
How do you know if your sweetie is about to lower the boom? Check below for some of the warning signs your relationship might be over soon.
6 Signs You Might Be Heading for a Breakup:
1. She’s no longer interested in sex, or worse, she’s recently learned some new tricks
A dramatic change in sexual behavior can mean two things:
Either your sweetie is trying to avoid any situation where
she might have to express emotion or attachment to you, or
she’s getting it somewhere else. Old dogs only learn new tricks
if someone is teaching them.
2. This isn’t about Toilet Paper! This is about Life!
If he’s picking silly fights, or there’s an unusual increase in emotional distance, you’ve got bad news. If your guy or girl is picking stupid fights all the time, they may be trying to get you to make the first move.
3. He says, “I need some space” or “I think we should see other people.”
By telling you he wants to see other people, he’s not technically breaking up with you (so no big crying scene to endure) but he’s given himself a way out. Of course, the second he gets a little distance, he’s going to make a run for it.
4. She gives you that little pat on the back.
Watch out for this one. A person who gives you a hug while patting you on the back is indicating that they are uncomfortable with what they’re doing. The bigger the pat, the more discomfort
they feel. Could be the kiss in front of Aunt Mildred. Could be garlic breath. Could be you.
5. She buys a pre-paid cell phone or pager.
This is a really bad sign. Private investigators everywhere will tell you the pager purchase is a sign of impending heartbreak.
Sure, it could be for work, but more likely, she’s using it to get a head start on her post-you life.
6. He used to be a blue jeans kind of guy, and suddenly he’s obsessed with Armani.
A person who is about to leave (or is cheating) will take greater care with his or appearance – updating his wardrobe, losing weight, working out and even changing cologne.
The good new is that if you make through to Valentine’s Day, you’re on the road to a long-term relationship. And if you don’t? Well, just consider yourself lucky: you’ll have lots of company. So, wipe away those tears, update your profile, and start your own mission to find true love. This could be
your year.
© 2006 by Lisa Daily. All rights reserved.
Dating Expert Lisa Daily is an internationally known dating
coach and the author of Stop Getting Dumped!
All you need to know to make men fall madly in love
with you and marry “The One” in 3 years or less.
As seen in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and Glamour Magazine
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Dress to Impress Them !
December 25, 2008 by admin
Filed under General Dating Articles
How should a man dress to impress? First, always wear clothes that correspond to the occasion. Second, always wear a well put-together outfit.
If you have trouble deciding on what to wear, it is always better to be overdressed than underdressed. You wouldn’t want to show up in casual wear for dinner at an expensive restaurant
with a woman dressed to kill. A man should always be dressed to meet the occasion or situation. No matter where you are going with a woman, you should always be wearing clean, well-kept
clothes. Believe it or not, women prefer clothes that are well-kept and clean to clothes that are worn out or dirty!
That may seem obvious to you, but it is important to remember.
By taking care of how you look, and by showing some style, you show women that you really care about your presentation – and women notice!
Always… Look Your Best! You should always
take the time to look your best whenever you go out. You never
know when you may have the opportunity to meet a stunning, beautiful woman – the grocery store, Laundromat, or coffee shop. Be sure to pay attention to the whole outfit. It’s worth the extra money to buy your self some nice clothes to wear out. And don’t forget about the shoes or boots, a new belt and a nice watch. Accessories do make a huge difference.
If you wear a well put-together outfit you will look sharp
and portray more confidence.
The way you dress actually will change how you behave. Think about it- if you wore a clown costume all day, you would feel silly and goofy. So if you want to have more sex appeal, wear something that makes you feel sexy. Women will respond to the image you project. Figure out what image you portray now and then make the necessary changes in your wardrobe to attain your desired image. Whatever image you want to give women be sure to act the part. You should consider all behavior that attributes to your overall personal image – physical gestures, eye contact. Use your clothes to emphasize your desired image.
With all my experience, and from talking with other guys, a successful look to maintain is to wear a pair of nice pressed or ironed pants and a sport shirt. Add to these basics a trendy blazer, leather jacket or simple sport coat. Wear some good-quality stylish leather shoes or boots (match your leather jacket if you wear one!) and be sure to always keep your shoes polished.
Be sure to show good taste. The whole outfit can be relaxed, trendy, conventional, or professional, but any route you take you must look sharp.
Try to stay away from wearing a tie. You want to stay loose and approachable – not uptight or snobby looking. A simple well put-together outfit is best. You’ll be more successful with women than you’ve ever imagined if you wear a clean, classic, well put-together outfit that exudes style and self-pride.
Refine Your Looks Women notice every little thing about a man’s grooming. Every time they see a guy they go through
a mental checklist. Is his hair washed and styled?
Are his fingernails clean or manicured? Are his shoes polished?
Clothes clean? Is he bathed? Does he smell good? These things really matter to women! Clean and neat counts! Find a grooming regime that works for you and stay polished!
Always, I repeat ALWAYS, shower and shave and use deodorant before going out to meet a woman. You might think the smell of your sweat is manly and sexy, but most women would strongly
disagree! Hold off on sharing your rugged body odor until you’re hot and heavy in bed. If you are going out specifically to meet new women or for a date, be sure to take some extra time getting ready. Show women that you care about your appearance.
Make sure your hair is done properly and your nails are filed and cleaned. Brush your teeth and use cologne – not too much though, as women generally have a better sense of smell than men. Take pride in how you look, and you instantly improve your chances of success!
Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under General Dating Articles
We’ve all done it at one time or another. We whine to our friends about the lack of nice available guys, and then, when given the choice between a nice, sweet (safe) guy and a bad boy who makes our toes curl, we invariably go for the toe-curler. The heartbreak-waiting-to-happen.
The bad boy.
Doesn’t make any sense, does it?
I recently received a letter from a sweet guy who wrote,
“I’ve been looking for some insights to what women are
looking for, because from my perspective, they often go for that which they complain about most!
Got any advice for us men?”
Baby, you hit the nail right on the head.
There’s good news and bad news for all you nice guys out there. Your day will come. It just may not be today.
Nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they’re swept up by a bad boy. The Navy Seal with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate. The Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match. The Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room.
We can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time.
Why?
Part of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat. Part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us. (Like chocolate cheesecake, and Jimmy Choo shoes.) Some of us are just gluttons for misery.
Most women actually grow out of the bad-boy phase once we hit our mid-twenties. Our girlfriends start to couple off, and we start wondering if we used up our nice guy quota in college when were still torturing men for sport. That’s where you come in, Mr. Sweet Guy. Because you’re the guy we really want.
Here’s my advice for all the nice guys:
Remember what we were wearing on our first date. Give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine’s Day.) Get what we’re all about. Let us know what you’re all about. Kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen. Give us your coat when it gets chilly outside. And remember there’s a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat – don’t take any crap from us.
After all, you don’t want to be a good boy in love with a bad girl.
Have faith and be safe – Eventually you’ll meet someone
fantastic, and you’ll just, well, click.
© 2004 by Lisa Daily. All rights reserved.
Lisa Daily is the author of Stop Getting Dumped! All you need to know to make men fall madly in love with you and marry “The One” in 3 years or less. At bookstores everywhere. As seen in/on Cosmopolitan, The Other Half and Ricki Lake Get our FREE Dating Tips newsletter – chock-full of man-snagging techniques, at http://www.stopgettingdumped.com




