Doc Lamour, from NY - USA
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Life is not easy. I came from Nebraska to New York a few months
ago. And lots of things have changed. I don't know, it seems
to me that it's extremely difficult to talk to girls around
here. I hope you can help me. What make girls attracted to
guys? Do I need to look like a millionaire or what? I hope
you will answer my mail.
Thanks for your great website!
All the best. Your fan from New York!
Andy
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from Paris-France
the city of Love
Hi Andy,
I will be sincere with you, and I will go straight to the
point. My answer from Paris is:
Girls are looking for handsome, confident and sexy guys. But
girls from big towns, such as Paris or New York, are slightly
different, mon ami. No doubt these girls are more difficult
to seduce if you come with a small town approach.
Of course, I could say something different in order to be
nice. But I am not nice, and you know that my job is to gather
facts and present them, unvarnished, to my readers. In less
than one second, when walking in a store or in a pub, Men
can arouse sexual interest in Women. Or NOT. I am sure that
many girls are looking at you, mon ami, because you have what
they need. But... you have to work on your style and the way
you approach women at the very beginning. Get more subtle
and confident. Have a look at a few romantic comedies to understand
better feminine values and what girls are looking for in a
guy.
When a girl is looking at you, do you appear in her top 5
sexy guys, or does your competition? If you're listed but
not within the first two or five in her instant results, YOU
LOSE. No matter how many efforts you can do further on.
In general, Girls like Men who do sports, are active, are
not too possessive and who make them laugh! AFCH: Active,
Fit, Confident, Humor. It's not that difficult, but most guys
blew it from the very beginning because they are acting like
braggarts. Why? Because they are not confident. If you're
really good, you don't have to shout it on the roof. I suggest
that you talk less and listen more. As long as a girl hasn't
touched you twice, don't do anything because in the end, Man
decides, the Woman makes him decide. You need to perceive
Sexy signals before moving in. Make sure the girls feel they
are important 200%, and let them think they are getting their
own way. Got it?
And for heaven's sake: stop acting. Be yourself, mon ami.
Because girls are looking for the real Andy!
If you want to know how to make anyone crazy about you, look
at the success guide "The French Secrets".
Bonne chance!
Your French Coach,
Doc LAMOUR
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