OutPersonals Dating Review
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Gay and Lesbian
Outpersonals is another site from the friendfinder family,
this being geared towards Gay or Gay curious men.
There is Erotic Chat or Email, Discreet Relationships, 1-on-1
Sex, Group Sex, B&D, Cross Dressing, Fetishes, Exhibition,
Voyeurism, S&M & other alternative activities.
You can also browse by State, or by Country.
As a member you can select certain characteristics in the
person you are looking for. The site will notify your matches
via email.
OutPersonals not only gives members the opportunity to meet
friends and partners, they also enhance the member experience
with daily horoscopes, photo ratings, free e-greeting cards,
and the interactive OutPersonals Magazine written by and for
members. The Magazine includes member-submitted articles and
poetry, as well as a question and answer advice forum.
| Free Basic membership?: | YES |
| Suitable For: | Gay
Bisexual Groups Gay Curious Transexual/Transvestite/Transgender |
| Regions Served: | Worldwide |
| Database: | 500,000+ members. |
| Services: | Erotic Chat or Email, Discreet Relationships, 1-on-1 Sex, Group Sex, B&D, Cross Dressing, Fetishes, Exhibition, Voyeurism, S&M & other alternative activities. |
| Testimonials: | “I met Gavin on OutPersonals 6 months ago. It started off very casual and physical, but we’re now in love. Imagine that!” - KokoPaul “I always wanted to make love with a man and had - luap88 |
| Yaay: | Large database.You can search for compatible profiles right down towns near you. |
| Boo: | none |
| Check out: | LikeMyGayPhoto.com. Have fun rating photos from Outpersonal profiles |
| Join today: | Outpersonals |
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Date.com Personals Review
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under International Dating
DATE.COM – THE ULTIMATE DATING SITE!
Launched on St Valentines day 1997 the Date.com dating services website offers a safe way for singles to meet. There’s a detailed registration process, but on logging in there’s an impressive 85088 created over the previous 7 days, (around 250,000 new members join each month) so there’s bound to be a chance to find that date.
For a Free 10 Day Trial use the coupon code: Newyears10
You can view all profiles and photos from the free member status. The community ezine features articles, relationship advice and lots of other stuff including the amusing ‘Dates from Hell’
This is an impressive package which empasses everything you’d expect from a top dating site.
| Free Basic membership?: | YES |
| Suitable For: | Heterosexual
Gay Lesbian |
| Regions Served: | Worldwide |
| Database: | 2 million + |
| Testimonials: | Just to let you know that I will be married on July 29 this year. I want to thank you for everything and that you have a great program. I am very happy at this moment in time. I haven’t been this happy in such a long time. I am 53 years old and thought that I wouldn’t find anyone! Well, I thought wrong. She’s a wonderful woman for me. Again I want to thank you, Date.com Bernie January 6, 2003 Scott and I are doing great and I can’t say how thankful |
| Yaay: | All round quality dating services website |
| Boo: | None |
| Join: | Join DATE.COM Today! |
Match Dating Review
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Featured, International Dating
Match.com is the exclusive dating service on MSN, AOL, and a heap of other sites. They are the number 1 dating site, and the best known worldwide which means they have a massive number of profiles, and you get a lot of choices. They have matched over 1000 marriages and countless
relationships.
It allows you to search the personals without entering any information about yourself at all. There are plenty of search options taking in keyword, personality and location. You have to be very specific otherwise you’ll find yourself overloaded with matches.
The profile set-up is fairly straightforward allowing you to use a two way matching function, and new profiles are emailed to you. There is a smart little message box for adding your favourites too.
MatchScene offers fresh content to help newbies get up and running and there are special events, group trips et el should you be inclined.
| Database: | 6 million
with 12,000 new users joining daily |
| Free Basic membership?: | YES |
| Suitable For: | Heterosexual
Homosexual PenPals Seniors Exotic |
| Regions Served: | Worldwide |
| Yaay: | Good little search facility, smart site, big database. |
| Boo: | None |
| From the Site: | Purpose
Match.com brings people together; we welcome all single |
| Join: | Try Match.com |
Yahoo Personals – Give Fate a Nudge
So simple yet effective, Yahoo Personals has excellent refined search facilities. Everyone has heard of
Yahoo! so you can be sure your profile will always be available to an ever increasing audience. Now is the time to sign up!
Yahoo! Personals is the place to find great people near you. Searching, creating a profile and flirting online with Icebreakers are free. Add free voice and video greetings to your profile and up to five photographs. Search by keywords (like “travelling” or “dancing”), find people similar to ones you’ve already seen and liked, or search by characteristics and traits you have on common with others. Yahoo! Personals will send
you profiles of people matching your search requirements too. Make connections by email or IM.
The Mutual Matching feature brings up profiles of people who match your criteria and visa versa.
Asia Friendfinder Review
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Asian Singles
Asia Friendfinder is probably the largest database for asian dating. It covers profiles from Asia, Middle East, Africa, Europe, Carribean, North America, Central America, South America, Africa, China, US, Canada, Australia/Oceania. A small sample of women seeking men:
China (287,509 listings)
Hong Kong (27,359 listings)
Japan (5,533 listings)
Malaysia (19,122 listings)
At Asiafriendfinder you can meet all kinds of new friends and improve your relationship skills all for free!
With a free membership, you can chat, send instant messages, and browse through their huge database of profiles. Plus, there’s also access to their interactive Magazine where you can post questions and receive advice. There are thousands of articles available.
Have a look at
www.likemyphoto.com and rate photos from the profiles
of AsiaFriendfinder.com
| Free Basic membership?: | YES |
| Suitable For: | Heterosexual
Penpals Gay Lesbian Activity Partners |
| Regions Served: | Worldwide |
| Database: | Huge |
| Yaay: | Chat Rooms arranged by geographic location |
| Boo: | You have to be a member to see the full sized pictures |
| Asiafriendfinder.com testimonials | “I’ve always found Asian women to be so beautiful, and now I’m engaged to one thanks to Asia Friendfinder!!” - Mikael671 yes, I want to share my happiness with other person - lilian27 . AsiaFriendFinder helped me find some of my best friends, - WhisperKitten75 |
| Join: | Sign up to Asiafriendfinder for FREE Here |
How to use car sales tactics to get your guy to propose.
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Dating for Women
By Lisa Daily
One of the most common questions I get from readers is how
to get a boyfriend to the altar. For guys, getting engaged
is a lot like buying a new car: It’s a pretty scary decision
to ponder, it’s utterly terrifying when you actually get up
the nerve to make the offer, and absolutely fabulous when
you finally get to take her home.
Well girls, if a guy in a plaid polyester suit and a bad
rug can get your man to sign on the dotted line, so can you.
All you need to know are a few tricks of the trade.
He has to be in the market.
If you’re not in the market for a new car, it doesn’t matter
if they use live gorillas or a big pile of cash – nothing
is going to get you into the showroom if you don’t want to
be there. The same is true for marriage. You can hint, beg
and plead all you want, but if he’s not interested in what
you’re selling, there’s nothing you can do to make him buy.
We hear ads for car dealerships hundreds of times a day, 365
days a year, but we tune them out until we’re actually ready
to consider buying. The lesson here: When he’s in the market,
he’ll let you know.
Make sure he can pass the credit check.
A lot of times we’re so worried about whether or not he wants
to marry us, we don’t take the time to make sure we want to
marry him. I’m not talking about money here – I’m talking
about the important things, like honesty, kids, education
and family. Are his scores up to your standards? You don’t
want to lose out on more qualified buyers because you’re spending
all your energy trying to make a deal with somebody who doesn’t
make the grade.
Don’t try to sell him a minivan if what he really wants is
a flashy sports model.
The fact is, a guy already knows what he wants by the time
he walks into the dealership. The same is true in relationships.
If your guy doesn’t want kids, spends all his time alone on
a sailboat, and loves his African art collection, don’t try
to talk him into a suburban daddy lifestyle. You may pressure
him into the deal, but it won’t be long before he’s miserable
and suffering from buyers’ remorse. It won’t be long before
he’ll start figuring out a way to trade you in for the model
he really wanted.
He needs to know the model he wants (you) won’t be on the
showroom floor forever.
One of the greatest fears in buying a new car is that if we
leave the showroom, the car we really want will be snatched
up by somebody else unless we make an offer right away. The
same is true for men: If he thinks you’ll be waiting around
forever while he makes a decision, he’ll have no incentive
to act now. On the other hand, if he knows you may not be
available if he takes too much time deciding, he’ll be more
inclined to lock in the deal and get the one he wants today.
He has to know there are others buyers in the market.
Nothing is more appealing than a car that everybody wants
and nobody can get. So what happens when there are a lot of
buyers in the market, and not enough cars to go around? The
waiting list. At all times you’re not in an exclusive relationship,
try dating at least three men at a time. Men are intensely
competitive, and their attraction to you will increase tenfold
if they sense another buyer in the showroom. Plus, you’ll
have a backup or two if a promising deal falls through. In
the meantime, all your potential buyers will be trying to
figure out how he can wiggle his way to the top of your list.
Give him a test drive.
Every day of your dating relationship is like a test drive
for marriage, and from day one, he’s evaluating how you perform.
Is your relationship a smooth ride? Does it work with his
lifestyle? Or does it break down every few weeks? Either way,
he’s relying on the test drive when it comes to making the
big decision to buy. Your guy has to feel like you’re the
model he can live with. (At least until the loan is paid off.)
Ring the bell when the deal is made.
The final car sales tactic is ringing the bell when the deal
is made. Once he’s made the deal, the car salesman rings a
big bell, and everybody in the showroom stops what they’re
doing to congratulate the new buyer. Even though the deal
hasn’t been signed yet, it’s a way to make him feel good about
his decision, and keep him from backing out once he sees what
the sunroof is going to cost. The same is true for proposals.
Make sure you announce to the crowd, friends and family the
fabulous, romantic way in which your guy has just proposed.
Everybody will congratulate him like crazy, he’ll feel a happy
rush of emotion, and you will seal the deal.
© 2004 by Lisa Daily. All rights reserved.
Lisa Daily is the author of Stop Getting Dumped!
All you need to know to make men fall madly in love
with you and marry “The One” in 3 years or less.
At bookstores everywhere.
As seen in/on Cosmopolitan, The Other Half and Ricki Lake
Get our FREE Dating Tips newsletter – chock-full of man-snagging techniques, at http://www.stopgettingdumped.com
How to Be The Guy That Women Want
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Dating for Men
By Lisa Daily
These days my email box is jammed full with letters from men asking for advice on how to attract women. Being a woman myself, I’m a bit on the fence as far as revealing the chick’s club
secret code, but as an eternal optimist when it comes to love
and relationships, I’ll do whatever I can to get everybody happily coupled up.
So guys, this month it’s your turn. Below you’ll find some
a combination of my favorite make-her-toes-curl moves, as
well as some fun tidbits from the thousands of women who write
to me, telling me what they look for in a guy.
Science first.
1. Take your positions for the mating dance.
Want to be the guy who gets noticed? Stand in the center
of the
room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several
books and nationally-known expert in the field of spacial
psychology,
where you are in a room (and what you’re doing) has a lot
to do with
your ability to attract women. Where should you be for the
highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties?
Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving
around
a bit. (But don’t pace a track on the carpet for goodness
sake…)
2. Nice guys wear blue.
According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director
of the
Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every
Mood,
women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. And why
wouldn’t we be? According to Eiseman, guys who frequently
wear blue are “stable, faithful, constant and always
there.” The
blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship
–
someone who’s dependable, momogomous and can match his
own clothes.
Concerned your wardrobe is driving people away? Stay away
from what Eiseman calls “squished caterpillar yellow-green”
which is said to repel both sexes equally.
3. Be an Alpha male, or just look like one.
According to Body Language Expert Patti Wood, you shouldn’t
fold your arms or chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. Wood
says, chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of
which are very attractive emotions.
There’s more. Women are biologically attracted to more dominant
men, so stand tall with your shoulders back. Feel free to
take up some space. Wood says appearing more dominant effectively
draws female attention. To attract women, stand with your
feet 6-10 inches apart, and your toes pointing outward.
For men who are victims of the “nice guy” badge,
or who appear to be too submissive to attract women, try taking
your Y chromosome out for a spin. According to spatial psychologist
Albert Mehrabian, men should “try wearing bulkier or
more conservative hairstyles or clothing,” hold your
head up, and speed up your speech and gestures to be more
assertive.
Make your move.
1) The eyes have it.
Once you’ve zeroed in on a target, lock eyes with her for
a full five to six seconds, then smile and drop your gaze.
Don’t stare a hole through the girl’s forehead for goodness
sake, just give her a smoldering come-hither look and look
away. Do this at least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute
period. Why? Your target needs to know it’s them you’re flirting
with, and eye contact is a universal signal of openness. Then,
make your move. Walk up and start a conversation. Wait too
long and they’ll likely lose interest.
2) Preen like a peacock.
We tend to preen or groom ourselves subconsciously when we’re
attracted to someone, by smoothing down our hair or clothes,
such as straightening your tie. Try combining a grooming gesture
with a smile and a gaze.
3) Monkey see, monkey do.
People mirror each other’s body language when they are attracted
with similar gestures, voice volume, etc. Try subtly mimicking
your flirting target’s behavior. If she leans forward, you
lean forward. If he scratches his head, you scratch your head.
If you are mirroring someone’s behavior, they’ll begin to
feel as though the two of you are connected and “in tune.”
4) Go in for the kill.
Once you and your flirting target have started talking, use
these tips to deepen the attraction. First, smile and maintain
eye contact as they are speaking, and focus all of your attention
on what they are saying. There is rarely anyone more attractive
than someone who finds you utterly fascinating.
How to tell if a woman is flirting with you? Look for signs
like extended eye contact, low-level touching and laughing.
What the women want.
Finally, once you’ve made your move, there are a few more
strategies you should employ. According to my research and
the hundreds of letters I receive every week, what women really
want is pretty simple:
1) If you want a woman’s phone number, be a man and ask for
it. Don’t pull that weenie-move of handing us your business
card and expecting us to make the first move.
2) Don’t wait a week to call. We know you’re playing it cool
and it irritates us. Two or three days is plenty of time to
wait.
3) Don’t wait until the last minute to ask for a date. Give
us a chance to look forward to it. (On the other hand, in
the early stages of a new relationship (first month) NEVER
ask us for a date several months in advance. Let ‘s make sure
the relationship is something both parties want to pursue
before you get locked into plans you may not want to keep.)
4) Never pressure a woman for sex. Really. Especially on
the first date.
5) Be a gentleman. That means paying for dinner, holding
the door open, and using your table manners. (Even if you
can belch the theme from Star Wars.)
6) Always offer your coat on a chilly night. (Yes, we know
we should bring our own, but we don’t. Besides, there’s something
utterly fabulous about cuddling up in your big man jacket.)
7) On top of that, be yourself. A really great guy.
For more information on:
The psychology of color: www.pantone.com
Body language:
www.pattiwood.net
© 2004 by Lisa Daily. All rights reserved.
Lisa Daily is the author of Stop Getting Dumped!
All you need to know to make men fall madly in love
with you and marry “The One” in 3 years or less.
At bookstores everywhere.
As seen in/on Cosmopolitan, The Other Half and Ricki Lake
Get our FREE Dating Tips newsletter – chock-full of
man-snagging techniques, at http://www.stopgettingdumped.com
Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under General Dating Articles
We’ve all done it at one time or another. We whine to our friends about the lack of nice available guys, and then, when given the choice between a nice, sweet (safe) guy and a bad boy who makes our toes curl, we invariably go for the toe-curler. The heartbreak-waiting-to-happen.
The bad boy.
Doesn’t make any sense, does it?
I recently received a letter from a sweet guy who wrote,
“I’ve been looking for some insights to what women are
looking for, because from my perspective, they often go for that which they complain about most!
Got any advice for us men?”
Baby, you hit the nail right on the head.
There’s good news and bad news for all you nice guys out there. Your day will come. It just may not be today.
Nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they’re swept up by a bad boy. The Navy Seal with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate. The Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match. The Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room.
We can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time.
Why?
Part of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat. Part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us. (Like chocolate cheesecake, and Jimmy Choo shoes.) Some of us are just gluttons for misery.
Most women actually grow out of the bad-boy phase once we hit our mid-twenties. Our girlfriends start to couple off, and we start wondering if we used up our nice guy quota in college when were still torturing men for sport. That’s where you come in, Mr. Sweet Guy. Because you’re the guy we really want.
Here’s my advice for all the nice guys:
Remember what we were wearing on our first date. Give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine’s Day.) Get what we’re all about. Let us know what you’re all about. Kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen. Give us your coat when it gets chilly outside. And remember there’s a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat – don’t take any crap from us.
After all, you don’t want to be a good boy in love with a bad girl.
Have faith and be safe – Eventually you’ll meet someone
fantastic, and you’ll just, well, click.
© 2004 by Lisa Daily. All rights reserved.
Lisa Daily is the author of Stop Getting Dumped! All you need to know to make men fall madly in love with you and marry “The One” in 3 years or less. At bookstores everywhere. As seen in/on Cosmopolitan, The Other Half and Ricki Lake Get our FREE Dating Tips newsletter – chock-full of man-snagging techniques, at http://www.stopgettingdumped.com
Adult Friendfinder Review
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Adult Dating
If you’re looking for a good time then Adult FriendFinder has plenty of adult personals online.
Adultfriendfinder is probably the world’s largest online sex personals and swingers community. Find a steamy one-night stand, erotic threesome, or a long-term wild relationship with a like minded sexual partner.
You can meet real partners for sex and fun – in your city or where-ever you go! Here, you’ll find a large community of singles who are looking to make connections and find sex, dates, casual sex partners, friends and more.
Adultfriendfinder does contain explicit pics in the profiles when you sign up to fully paid membership,
but this may give you an indication of the kind of sex and fun partners you might be looking for.The vast database means you’ll get plenty of profiles wherever you live.
The chat rooms in Adult friendfinder are busy most of the time with people exchanging frank and open messages, there’s also an exclusive live nude video chat system.
There is FREE basic membership. Browse thousands of explicit sex personals and sexy photos from real members, so that you can have a little look-see before taking the plunge to full membership! Send and receive e-mail anonymously and safely. Your information is completely confidential – so no one knows your real identity unless you give it to them.
Join Adult friendfinder – largest Adult Personals with over
20 million registered members!
| Free Basic membership?: | YES |
| Suitable For: | Erotic chat or email, discreet relationships, 1 on 1 sex, group sex, bondage and discipline, cross-dressing, fetishes, swingers, exhibition/voyeurism |
| Regions Served: | Worldwide |
| Database: | Huge |
| Yaay: | FREE Chat Rooms arranged by geographic location |
| Boo: | You have to be a member to see the full sized pictures |
| From the site: | Are you looking for a little spice in your sex life? Adult Friend Finder can help! We’re the largest adult personals and swingers directory with over 10,000,000 registered members with thousands of sexy photos! |
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eHarmony Dating Review
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under International Dating
eHarmony uses 29 dimensions of compatibility that align in the most successful relationships to help you find your perfect match such as Character, Adaptability, Sense of Humour, Kindness,
Family Background, Values and many more.
After 35 years of private counseling, research and public speaking, Dr. Warren created eharmony, combining clinical expertise with the latest technology.
The site has created hundreds of marriages so far, so if you are really serious about finding the lurve of your life then this is probably the site for you. eHarmony is the best way for you to build a lasting relationship. They combine precise matching technology with the guidance of a caring and expert hand.
| Free Basic membership?: | Your Personality profile and matches are FREE |
| Paid Membership: | Paid Membership is required if you wish to contact other members. |
| Suitable For: | Heterosexual |
| Regions Served: | Worldwide |
| Database: | Huge |
| Special
Offer: |
If you sign up for a one year membership, you get the relationship starter package, including 2 books by Dr. Neil Clark Warren: “Finding the Love of Your Life” and “Date…or Soul Mate? How to Know If Someone Is Worth Pursuing In Two Dates Or Less” |
| Yaay: | If you are looking for true love, eHarmony is where you will find it. The question survey might take some time and effort to complete, but your happiness is worth it, right? |
| Boo: | none |
| From the site: | Unlike dating services, eHarmony will match you with people who are compatible not just on the surface, but also in the deep and important ways that truly matter in a relationship. Then you get to have fun discovering the chemistry. |
| Testimonials: | “It took time before I got my first match, and I was impatient. Over several weeks I was matched with six men and began to understand what eHarmony is doing. Today, I’m communicating with 3 men who all seem well suited for me. I’m so glad I hung in there.” –Amy, Kansas City, MO |
| Join: | eharmony.com |
